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Concept of the Week · Episode 12
The feeling, after you do something embarrassing, that everyone is watching. Most people notice far less about us than we think, because they are busy thinking about themselves.
Explained by Professor Peter Kinderman, clinical psychologist · First published 7 October 2026 · Updated 7 October 2026
Thomas Gilovich, Victoria Medvec and Kenneth Savitsky named it in 2000. In their best known study, students were asked to put on a Barry Manilow T-shirt and walk into a room of other students. Afterwards they guessed that about half the room had noticed the shirt. About a quarter had. Later work by the same group found the same pattern for good moments as well as bad: we overestimate how much others register what we say and do, in either direction.
The spotlight effect. When you do something embarrassing, it feels as if a spotlight is on you and everyone is looking. Peter's point is that it is probably not true: people are self focused, which they need to be to get through the day, so they barely notice. In the original study, by Thomas Gilovich, Victoria Medvec and Kenneth Savitsky in 2000, students sent into a room in a Barry Manilow T-shirt guessed about half the people there had noticed. About a quarter had.
Peter's explanation on the show is that people are self focused, and need to be to get through the day, so a moment that feels enormous to you barely registers with anyone else. Hilary has been telling her teenagers the same for years: you are not the main story of anyone else's movie. The stories are the episode's best: trousers falling down in a coffee shop, Hilary's husband stung by a bee in a bank queue and too embarrassed to make a sound, and Peter falling off his bike at a crossroads in a small French town to a ripple of applause from two cafes, then cycling off.
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Do something embarrassing and it feels as if everyone saw. Mostly, they didn't. The Concept of the Week is the spotlight effect, and as Hilary tells her teenagers, you are not the main story of anyone else's movie.
Thomas Gilovich, Victoria Medvec and Kenneth Savitsky, in a paper published in 2000 in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. Students wearing a Barry Manilow T-shirt guessed about half of a room had noticed it; about a quarter had.
Because we are the centre of our own attention, and we assume we are at the centre of everyone else's too. Peter's point on the show is that everyone else is doing the same thing, which is why they mostly do not notice.
Peter's Triple T: ask what you would do if it happened to someone else. You would glance over, maybe have a chuckle, and get on with your day. That is probably what everyone else is doing.
The primary literature behind the idea, for anyone who wants to check it. Also on Wikipedia.
Kinderman, P. (2026). The spotlight effect. Concept of the Week, Experience: Analysing Newsmakers, episode 12, with Hilary Jeffs. https://www.experiencepodco.com/concepts/spotlight-effect.html
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Concept of the Week is a regular feature of Experience: Analysing Newsmakers, the weekly podcast in which clinical psychologist Professor Peter Kinderman and communications expert Hilary Jeffs take the news apart to see what is driving it. Peter picks a psychological idea most of us have half-remembered wrong and explains what it actually shows. New episodes every Tuesday. Where to listen.